Cancer, or commonly known as ‘The Big C’, is a non-communicable disease that does not discriminate. A cancer diagnosis leaves a huge impact in the lives of not only the patient but those around them too. This is especially so when it comes to battling childhood cancer.
Children are resilient individuals but there is no doubt that they will face a unique set of obstacles and challenges in the event of a cancer diagnosis. As parents or guardians, it can be challenging to juggle between your emotions and to look after a child with cancer.
However, at the same time, you know that your child needs your support to win the battle. We understand that the journey is not an easy feat but we hope that the steps below will effectively help you and your child during this journey.
How does cancer develop in children?
All types of cancer, including childhood cancers, start with genetic changes in one’s body cells. As the cells change, it will eventually grow in a mass (a tumour) and progress to affect other cells around the body. If left untreated, these cells will cause harm and possibly death.
Among adults, there could be many possible reasons that might cause cell changes and contribute to the development of cancer. For example, if a smoker was to be diagnosed with lung cancer, doctors would have been able to identify that smoking would most likely have contributed to the development of the disease. When it comes to childhood cancers on the other hand, unlike cancer in adults, the cause of the cancer is often unknown.
The World Health Organization explains that various studies have aimed to identify the causes of childhood cancer; very few cancers in children are caused by lifestyle or environmental factors. Therefore, generally it is close to impossible to prevent cancer in children but instead, efforts are focused on reducing the burden of the disease among children and improving the outcome of treatment.
5 amazing ways to support your child with cancer
Showing your support and being there for your child is most important during your child’s cancer journey. Here are some suggestions on how you can help your child during these challenging times. These tips are useful not only for parents but for anyone who knows of a child battling childhood cancer.
#1 Communicate well
Keeping your child well informed can be helpful and it’ll also manage their expectations during this journey. Depending on your child’s age, if your child is able to understand the concept of time and the procedures involved, you could take your time to explain what to expect. Also, don’t be afraid to use the word ‘cancer’ during your conversation with your child. According to cancercare.org, while adults may fear the word ‘cancer’, children on the other hand feel secure knowing the name of the disease.
During your conversations, encourage your child to ask questions and if there are any that you’re not able to answer, don’t be afraid to let them know that you’re not too sure but you will find out the answer.
#2 Use child-friendly materials
Your child will have questions or may struggle to comprehend everything that’s happening. This is absolutely normal and reading materials such as children’s books can help your child understand the situation better. There are various children’s books available that are written specifically for children with cancer.
Plus, the benefit of reading with your child never gets old, no matter their age. These special moments will definitely strengthen your bond with your child, which is much needed as they feel vulnerable.
#3 Reassure your child
Throughout your child’s journey to recovery, reassure your child that you are always there for him or her and you will be providing all the support that is needed, plus with the help of a trusted team of medical professionals. During such times of uncertainty and vulnerability, reassuring your child that he or she is surrounded by individuals that have him or her as their best interest, will be helpful for your child.
#4 Encourage your child to express the way they feel
There is no doubt that there will be good days and days where things may be tougher than usual. As for your child, there may be moments where he or she may not want to open up about his or her feelings and it’s alright. As parents, continue to show your support for your child even if he or she were to say, “I don’t want to talk about it”.
Allow your child to express the way they feel through their preferred outlet. Some children may prefer drawing instead of talking or writing a journal. Help your child find the right channel that will encourage him or her to let loose and express their emotions.
#5 Seek support for yourself
As a parent or a guardian, there is a lot to take in as well when you know of a child battling childhood cancer. Just like how your child needs help with understanding the situation and to have a healthy outlet to express the way they feel, you too should receive sufficient support.
Remember that, to take care of your child well, you’ll need to make sure that your physical and emotional needs are met. Therefore, don’t forget to care for yourself and be open to receiving support from those around you too.
Emotional and physical support for you and your child are equally crucial during this journey. Help is available and don’t hesitate to reach out for help during this journey. Receiving much needed support in any way, can help you and your child focus on the road to recovery.
